‘Rolling over Each Other’ is the freest sexual position for both man and woman.

Both can, at their discretion alternate the dominance without getting pinned down, while both have freedom to feel each other, hug, kiss or caress as they like.

This sexual position is most pleasurable for couples who are playful and learning to know each other’s sexuality especially during early period of marriage.

Here men and women feel equal in the sexual act.

This is the fantasy both can enjoy especially on a larger bed.

Couples have to learn by experience to clasp each other tight enough for intimacy and keep their embrace loose enough to allow movement of penis without its slipping out of vagina.

They can share each other’s bodies, without anyone dominating

Both have opportunity to clasp the partner’s body between the legs while having intercourse and continue to remain in that position even after the act

This act of rolling over each other, first with clothes fully or partly on and later completely undressed, is quite thrilling for foreplay before they are ready for intercourse.

Side-by-side sexual position for intercourse is most suitable for couples where both are not comfortable or unable to carry weight of another person.

In this variation, both lie on their side and woman clasps his body between her legs.

He can easily slip his erect penis inside her vagina or take her help for insertion.

With hands free situation for both, couple can coordinate their movements, hold as well as caress each other intimately and enjoy the sex almost equally.

Rear Entry Sexual Position involves woman bend on her knees and man pushing his erect penis inside her vagina from back. This position is derived from animal instinct.

The benefits of face-to-face position where there is eye-to-eye contact, excitement and involvement of facial expression is missing here.

He gets visual pleasure of her back and hips and enjoys intercourse, whereas she has to surrender passively and feel only the thrusting penis inside her.

He can also fondle or hold her breasts or give a loving embrace while enjoying the penetration.

He can also get pleasure by viewing the wobbling breasts from the side or in the mirror.

But, the most pleasurable moments are when she responds to each thrust with pleasurable moaning.

Man can also stimulate her clitoris with his fingers while moving his penis inside her vagina. With little coordination and understanding, couple can experience simultaneous orgasm.

In this position with his hands free to hold her waist, he can pull her towards him forcefully while he is giving pelvic push, to achieve stronger thrusts. Care should be taken not to hurt her, by the depth and powerful thrust easily possible for man.

The woman generally plays passive role, and there is no contact of his body with her clitoris. However, the angle of penis inside her can touch the most sensitive front wall of her vagina which can still help her reaching the climax.

Woman may keep her knees together to increase resistance for insertion of penis till she lubricates enough for his insertion.

Sometimes the gradual forcing of his penis inside her becomes erotic enough for her to get spontaneous lubrication

With closer proximity of penis with most sensitive front wall of the vagina, the moment of ejaculation is most exciting for the woman who is willing to enjoy this position.

She can move her pelvic region to accommodate his penis properly to please her most. But, her pleasure depends more on her willing participation than just surrender.

She may feel most vulnerable in this position, displaying her vagina and anus completely to him, with no way to see his expression.

Couples who love experimenting sexual position may enjoy this position.

Women who love to see their husband enjoying their body, sexually cooperative or submissive women may willingly accept requests for rear-entry position

Rear-Entry sexual position also allows couple to have a quickie with minimum removal of clothes.

Rear-Entry sexual position can have woman in animal like position supported on hands and legs folded at knee.

She can also stand along the bed or a table and support her upper body by her arms.

Rear-Entry can also be performed when both are lying on same side of their body with his front in contact with her back side. In this position, wife can accommodate his body to facilitate entry of his penis into her vagina.

This is especially favoured when pregnant or when the woman is too fat on the abdomen and the tummy keeps coming in way. This position is also called "Spoon Position"

In all rear-entry positions, penis is inserted into the vagina.

In Rear-Entry sexual position woman has to bear her weight as well as his thrust on her hands, hence the act could be extremely tiring when there is too much thrusting or the intercourse goes on for a longer time than her tolerance level.

The possibility of excessive thrust can make her genital area sore, causing pain and discomfort which may last for few days.

Woman can communicate to her husband when the act is being painful and both can shift to other more comfortable sexual position without losing mood or getting upset.

Woman can reduce the weight on her hands and shoulders by lowering her shoulders on the pillow, taking care not to block her breathing comforts.

There is more possibility of vocal expressions where he will be thrilled to hear her screams for want.

Giving him this pleasure may encourage him to demand more of it. And, this may be harmful in married life if these demands are just out of his fantasy that he has learned from pornographic videos.

Stimulation of clitoris by tongue during oral sex is shown most commonly as “normal act” in many books on “Sex” and is also one of the most highlighted acts in pornographic videos.

However, in married life it may not be acceptable to every woman. Hence, this act should not be insisted if refused or not enjoyed by the partner.

Women who unwillingly surrender to partner’s wish in oral sex gradually start avoiding sex and also lose interest in sexual relationship altogether.

Oral sex is not considered as “Normal Sex”.

Oral sex by girl means arousing your partner by kissing or licking his penis and sometimes involves sucking of Penis till the ejaculation takes place.

For your boyfriend oral sex could mean allowing him to stimulate your clitoris by tongue or kissing the vaginal lips.

Please remember, while some women quite regularly enjoy this as a part of their sexual play, some do not enjoy it and in married relationship, most women hate the idea of oral sex.

The reality is that the mouth does not have pleasure neuro-receptors, hence only the person receiving gets pleasure. Inserting a finger in the mouth causes gagging and vomit like sensations, how can taking a thrusting penis in the mouth be pleasurable?

Sex should be mutually satisfying and pleasure giving to both. If only one person wants pleasure, then that partner is using the other for masturbation.

When sexual stimulation of same intensity is possible by hand stimulation, caressing and other skin-to-skin contacts with innumerable variations, couples in marital relationship can enjoy mutually satisfying sexual pleasures without opting for oral sex.

It is also illegal in most countries to indulge in any form of sexual contact before the lawful age of that country.

Oral sex is exhibited and promoted extensively in pornographic videos on internet creating a misconception that most women like to suck the penis. Contrary to this belief, most women in their married life hate oral sex.  Some women unwillingly yield to it to keep their male partner happy, during pregnancy or menstruation. This may develop serious implications in reducing sexual desire in women.

However, if both the partners take sexual pleasure from oral sex, it is up to them to opt for it.

Semen is non-toxic fluid and may not cause any harm if gets swallowed accidently or intentionally. It is up to the woman partner to allow ejaculation inside the mouth or spit it out.

Oral sex is criminal offence in some countries. Forcing female partner for oral sex is not only inhuman but also considered as cruelty under which she may be granted divorce.

Around the time of ovulation, a girl may get fully aroused even by a casual loving contact like touching or hugging. The arousal may further lead to caressing of private parts, rubbing of bodies sexually or kissing.

Most harmful part of such arousal is that it could lead to undesired sexual intercourse which you could have otherwise never wished or wanted.

Girls, who are firm on not allowing sexual intercourse, are likely to be pressurized by the boys for having apparently harmless act of oral sex.

In some cases boys pass on a misconception that if their erection is not responded by the girl, he would suffer irreparable damage to his sexual health. Some boys even emotionally blackmail the girl in love, by challenging her to prove her ‘true love’ at least by harmless oral sex.

In most such cases, once the girl allows a boy an access to her private parts, stimulating a girl further for a sexual intercourse becomes just a natural consequence.

Warning Note,

Apart from being a seriously illegal act, especially if one to the partner is minor, girls losing virginity out of their childishness are likely to suffer most in their married life.

Oral sex also has the risk of inviting Sexually Transmitted Infection / Disease (STD/STI) including HIV which gets transmitted through body fluids like blood, Semen; and Saliva, if it contains even traces of blood from gums.

Therefore, however you feel about the idea of oral sex, don’t be persuaded by your boyfriend into having any kind of sex until you understand the risks and consequences.

The bend down position with buttocks towards him exposes her anal region and is clearly available for touching and it is also a pleasurable area for woman if touched.

However, man as well as woman must avoid insertion of penis or even fingert into her anus. Medically, anal sex is harmful and can lead to serious injury to the anus or rectum and severe infections.

Man must neither force the woman nor lure her for pleasure of ‘anal sex’.

It is better to get upset over never getting your wish to have anal sex fulfilled, rather than hurting your loving wife with this unnatural instinct and losing her interest in love making.

Medically, Anal Sex is considered as “High-Risk Behaviour”.

Biologically, Anal opening is not designed for penetration of any hard object.

Anal sphincter present at the opening of the anus is designed to hold the faeces in the rectum until person is ready to pass it at appropriate time and place.

Anal sphincter tightens even on slightest stimulation as protective reflex action

Any attempt made to thrust hard penis into anus will cause serious injury to this sphincter even if insertion is made slowly and gradually.

Unlike vagina the lining of the rectum is thin and not designed to receive Penis. Hence it tears easily and does not heal fast due to constant contact of faeces.

These ulcers may lead to fistula, a tube like passage which could open up in abdomen. Fistula allows faeces to pass into abdominal space creating life threatening situation requiring serious surgical process.

Person habitual to anal intercourse may lose control over anal sphincter which may lead to leakage of faecal matter.

Other serious surgical implications are haemorrhoids (piles) wherein bleeding occurs from anus and rectal prolapse where inside of the rectum protrudes outside anus. Both require surgical treatment.

Chances of transmission of HIV and other Sexually Transmitted Diseases are much higher in anal sex because of injured lining of rectum and ineffectiveness of condoms which are not designed for pressure dynamics of anal insertion.

Although highly glamorized by abundantly available pornographic material and accepted as normal variation in respectable sex related publications, Anal Sex is harmful in every case.

Therefore, Anal Sex must be refused, in heterosexual as well as homosexual relation; and also while self-pleasuring with Sex-Toys.