Urge for sex is a biological process observed in boys as well as girls and depends largely upon socioeconomic background, natural circumstances and individual’s sexual development.

It is perfectly normal to get attracted to a classmate, film star, teacher, a relative or a complete stranger.  It is often an uncontrollable feeling when it first happens.

Since it does not establish love for that person, one gets adjusted to such feelings with passage of time as new emotions gradually develop.

Boys experience strong urge for sex at younger age and get aroused even by erotic pictures or films or by imagining sexual fantasies.

In Girls sexual urge is usually strongest in thirties and forties. They get attracted on emotional grounds and their sexual arousal in most cases is only after being caressed.

Not being interested in sex is also perfectly normal in young boys and girls.  At the appropriate time, when the hormone level increases, the awareness of sexuality is felt.

Due to the involvement with studies, sports etc., some do not recognize sexual development till it becomes more apparent.

One must consult a doctor without any hesitation to clear any doubts and worries.

Sometimes girls are likely to feel crazy for sex due to sudden hormonal changes. Such feeling is quite natural and develops intense feeling for boys or men around, especially those who make them feel grown up.

Such a desire for sex often passes as the girl attains maturity and understands the medical, psychological, social and legal consequences involved in premarital sex.

Every matured girl must know that

1.   She possesses a right of refusal to sex, without giving any justification

2.   She is respected more for her refusal rather than yielding to premarital sex

3.   Any attempt to coax, tease, threaten or blackmail a girl into having sex arises only out of uncontrollable urge of a boy

4.   Sex before marriage is unlawful and it is neither fashion nor proof of competence.