Any part of the body which on touch creates arousal and or an urge to have Sex is called “Erogenous Zone”.
Couple need to know or find out erogenous zones of partner to get maximum mutual arousal for satisfactory sexual relationship.
In cases when intercourse is not possible, stimulation of erogenous zone can relieve the person of stress caused by deprivation of sex.
The arousal may be just felt like electrical current or vibrations causing highest pleasurable moments with rippling effect without actually leading to sexual feeling towards person touching.
Such feeling is a great experience for girls as well as boys who had never touched person of opposite sex. Even a simple handshake is enough to cause this feeling. In some cases even close proximity to person you love can create sensations in entire body.
This proves that, ‘Erogenous Zone’ is placed in the mind of the person receiving erogenous signals and may be communicated in various forms.
The arousal may be self stimulated by touching or caressing own sexually pleasurable parts or by touching of the partner.
Sometime even unintentional touch of a stranger or person of acquaintance may cause this arousal.
Perverts try to get such pleasure in the crowd by brushing their body against women
Erogenous zone does not necessarily get stimulated all the time by anyone’s touching. There is definite role played by time, mood and situation.
These zones may keep changing or remain unchanged for life time as per habit of a person or the partner.
For example, wife may like particular way of touching or fondling and would wish to keep enjoying that, as a special exclusive gesture of her husband.
It is not always ‘where’ the touch has occurred but ‘what’ has touched could also be arousing.
Most men get arousal when touched by woman’s hair or silk dress. Feel of breasts on the chest or contact of thighs during a hug can be equally arousing. Kissing, smelling or breathing against some part of the body can make part of their body erogenous.
Fully clothed woman keeping her breasts pressed against the back of her man casually, when she has opportunity to do so in public, is one of the most sensual pleasures enjoyed by both.
In short, what helps you in getting aroused and what makes your partner to get aroused is learned by self exploration, experimentation or sexual communication between the partners.
In married life, one must understand that every person can cultivate his or her erogenous zone by appreciating the partner’s touch.
In most loving couple even a casual touch can make any part of the body erogenous.
Beauty of long-term loving relationship is in cherishing these moments and encouraging partner by acknowledging and enjoying even that casual touch.